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St. Louis Area Chatroulette Users Are Just a Bunch of Dudes

Everyone is all in a tizzy for this month’s internet Macarena: Chat Roulette [1], where you are automatically connected via video chat to a random stranger also using the site.  Which sounds fun, until you realize that this guy is out there.

We hear at Punching Kitty Headquarters have been racking our brains for a way to take the large ChatRoulette user base and strip away anyone not from St. Louis.  You know, to see what St. Louisans where using the site which could be interesting…but thus far we got nothing.  The best thing about the internet though is that eventually someone else will do your homework and post it online. Chatroulette Map gives you a nice little map laid out with users from Chat Roulette and pinpointed by their IP address!  Nerd stuff!

Here’s the upshot: We now have a little peak in to the St. Louis Chat Roulette user!  …sadly, but not surprisingly, its mostly dudes.

A little statistics:

  • We have 9 users that the Chatroulette Map site revealed.
  • 1 out of 9 or 11% was a girl.
  • Another 11% involved a crotch shot.
  • White shirts are popular, as 66% of the users had them on.
  • 77% were not looking at the camera.
  • 88% were riding solo.
  • Only 11% of them were from Illinois. Sadly the crotch shot guy was not from Illinois.


1 If you are really in the dark to what Chat Roulette is, this video is the best way to get up to speed quickly.

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Holy Crap, the Internet Might Have Found “Chris”!

Remember way back to yesterday?  About those bitches who were talking about cheating on their boyfriend and then that awesome dude got them back like a super badass?

Go check it out.  We’ll wait.

Have you ever seen a dog happier than this?  Oh, your back.  Lets continue.

Well we have an update to that story, once again, courtesy of Reddit.

Hey, How’s it going? I wanted to thank you for your craigslist post. I’m not Kris, my name is Ed. I don’t know if your story involved me or not, but it sure got things done, in my life.

My sister is a bit of a whore, and I always see her messing around with guys on facebook. I resent the fact that she does that since it would kill me to see my girlfriend whoring it up with douches. Anyway, Kris knows about her facebook “friends” but he trusts her too much. I feel bad for him at times because he pays for my sister’s living expenses, and she treats him like shit. Also, my sister has a bunch of whory coworkers in st. louis that I always see on facebook. Maybe one of those skanks was the one at the pub.

Maybe your story was about my sister’s boyfriend, and maybe it wasn’t

Whether it was my sister at the pub or not, I forwarded the email to Kris.

He replied, “thanks, I’ll let her know.”

A while later I see her facebook relationship status as single.

Was this the Chris or Kris that the guy was originally talking about?  We’ll never know, but putting the screws to one cheating skank is good enough for us!

Please, women of St. Louis, if you see this guy out this weekend, give him a freebie.  If he’s ugly, get drunk first.  It’ll be a good dead and even though you’re technically being slutty, I think its like a “get in to heaven” grey area.  I think Jesus has to be cool with it.

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Updated: Listen to Mike on 550am @ 2:40

Update! Here’s the audio from my visit to The Mindset:

Mike Visits “The Mindset” on KTRS 550AM

Original Post:

Our illustrious and crazy awesome editor, Mike Flynn, will be on KTRS 550 am’s The Mindset with John Brown and Trish Gazall today at 2:40pm talking about Facebook, Twitter and the new Google Buzz.

Take a listen and see how many times he can plug this website without Charles Jaco busting in from the lunch room and trying to choke him live on the air.


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Checking in on the Kurt Greenbaum Saga

No, nothing new (that we know of) has happened in Greenbaum-Gate, but word is still spreading out from just our little world of baseball and new highways:

The Globe and Mail has an op/ed piece on Greenbaum: “When Comment Moderation Goes Too Far

The Huffington Post’s article on it is still getting comments.

Greenbaum’s Twitter profile is still blocked.

…and the 8th result on Google for “Kurt Greenbaum” is our friend at KurtGreenbaumIsAPussy.com

In some ways it appears the sprinting monster that is the internet and found something else shiny and turned its attention to that, but I wouldn’t say all is clear yet.

Maybe Kurt will poke his head out in the new year and see if its still stormy out.

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Kurt Greenbaum 29th Most Search Google Term

I really want to stop posting about this Kurt Greenbaum thing, but interesting things keep popping up.  Like this:  At one point in this whole mess, the term “Kurt Greenbaum” was the 29th most searched term on Google!

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Think about that for a second.  That’s amazing!

Also, this is amazing…

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We Talk With the Man Behind KurtGreenbaumIsAPussy.com

ahfmIf you haven’t noticed by now, this Kurt Greenbaum story hasn’t gone away yet, and though we are trying to keep up-to-date on all the Greenbaum-iness of the internet, there is one place that has become the hub for all the coverage of this story, and part of the story itself: KurtGreenbaumIsAPussy.com (or for those with virgin ears: KurtGreenbaum.com)

We recently traded emails with the anonymous operator of the site.  Here is the interview:

Punching Kitty: First off, thanks for the links.  We are truly honored!

Thanks for giving attention to what I think is a very interesting and important public discussion about what happened here.

PK: Are you from the St. Louis area?

No answer.

PK: Am I to assume you are trying to stay anonymous, or do you want to tell us who you are?

No answer.

PK: Where did you find out about the Greenbaum story originally?

I think I saw it making some traction on Reddit and Digg.  It seemed to have legs so I started following it.  Then I realized how disturbing it was.

PK: Clearly you are fired up about the story.  What about all of this really pissed you off enough to make this site?

I think there are a few reasons for the depth of the response:

1.  His actions seem to be a grave betrayal and inconsistent with Internet culture.  They also seem to be inconsistent with newspaper culture; he, in effect, ratted out one of his anonymous sources, so whether you prefer old media or new media, this is very bad.

2.  His actions seem to be hypocritical.  He’s gone to some length to establish himself as an expert and journeyman in the field of “social media”, encouraging us to think of him as a bridge between the old media St. Louis Post-Dispatch and the new media Internet.  And then as soon as he sees something mildly vulgar, he uses old-school, thuggish, command-and-control tactics to impose his morality on someone else and costs them their job.  He wants us to trust him as being Internet-savvy, but then he completely blows it.  Because verifying identity on the Internet is so hard, the Internet is especially is especially twitchy and vindictive about rooting out impostors.

3.  One of the reasons I made the site was that Wikipedia is refusing to permit a page about him.  There needs to be a central repository for information about this story.  I saw a need…

4.  I created the site as a public service and as a small contribution to my responsibilities as an engaged citizen.  At first, I thought, “That’s It!  I’m buying a major American newspaper company and giving people a piece of my mind on the editorial page!”.  But then I realized I only had 30 minutes or so to work on this, so I made a website instead.  Old media is dead.

PK: How’s the site doing?  Getting a lot of page views?

So far 30,000+ page views.  See the current total at the top of the home page at www.KurtGreenbaumIsAPussy.com.  I’m expecting traffic to expand greatly tomorrow (Monday) morning.

PK: You also registered KurtGreenbaum.com as well and redirected it to KurtGreenBaumIsAPussy.com. How exicited were you when you realized he hadn’t registered it yet himself?!

I just simply couldn’t believe he hadn’t already registered them.  I went back to several news sources and repeatedly checked the spelling.  I see this as further proof that he’s actually rather clueless about the Internet.  And “KurtGreenbaumIsAPussy” was too good of a double entendre to pass up.

PK: Has Greenbaum or anyone connected to him tried to get ahold of you yet?

No, but I’d be willing to talk with him.  I’ll bet we could have a very interesting, mutually beneficial conversation.

PK: Well thanks for taking the time to answer a few questions.  The site is hilarious.  Anything else you want to add?

I think there are a few open questions that need to be asked far and wide:

1.  What has been the response of the St. Louis Post-Dispatch?  They seem to be hunkering down and hoping this all blows over.

2.  What has been Kurt Greenbaum’s response?  He too seems to be hunkering down, restricting access to his social media accounts, blocking comments, etc.

3.  Given that the school Mr. Greenbaum called has a “headmaster”, that says private school, no public school.  Is it possible one of his children is a student at that school, and thus Greenbaum felt expanded license to contact them?

4.  Why haven’t we heard from the school itself, or the affected employee?  I’m surprised these facts haven’t yet come out.

5.  I suspect Greenbaum is using this as material for a book.  It might be an interesting read.  I hope it’s not simply a moan about how the Internet is destroying good old-fashioned Midwestern values.

Once again thanks to (Not) Kurt Greenbaum to taking the time to answer our questions.

We’re glad he threw in those point at the end of the interview, because he really has some interesting questions, #3 in particular.

Is it possible one of his children is a student at that school, and thus Greenbaum felt expanded license to contact them?

This is a great point, and if true, would actually loosen the noose (albeit, very slightly) around Greenbaum’s neck.

Once again, we would love to get a hold of the affected employee and even Mr. Greenbaum to get their sides of the story as well.  For any information you would like to share, 100% anonymously, hit us up at tips@punchingkitty.com or 314-266-TIPS (voice or text)

Chris Files Weighs in on the Kurt Greenbaum Story

Public Dis-service Announcement style…

Well done.

STLToday Looking To Upgrade That Commenting System?

We hear that the Post Dispatch’s Web Director, Will Sullivan is on Twitter looking for tips on commenting systems.

Hmmm, can’t think of why that would be.  Any ideas?

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The Internet Hate Machine Turns On Kurt Greenbaum

Maybe you saw our post yesterday about Kurt Greenbaum, the Post Dispatch’s Social Media Director and how he got a man fired because he posted a “vulgarity” on the comments of an STLToday article.  If not, check it out, we go in to in detail there.

In that post, I dropped this little pull quote, suitable for twittering and the like:

…and then the internet skull-f*cked him.

I was wrong.  The internet populace hadn’t begun to skull f*ck him at that point.  They are now though.

Midway through yesterday, one of our commenters alerted us that this story had popped up on Reddit, a popular social news site.

Screen shot 2009-11-19 at 10.48.09 PMThat’s kind of where this story took off and turned ugly for Greenbaum.

First, there were comments like this:

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…and then this (edited):

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That would be his full name, address, every phone number and email address he has and his boss’ contact info.

…and then Twitter took off.  Just do a quick search for people replying back to Greenbaum via Twitter and calling him a “pussy” (thats the word the commenter apparently used).

Oh and of course, you can also now visit: www.KurtGreenbaumIsAPussy.com

We aren’t going to stand here and tell you that all of this is cool, but we also aren’t going to say its all not funny.  [Editor's Note: Address? Not funny. Website?  Totally funny.]

If there is anything you can take away from this, here it is:

1. Don’t mess with privacy policies.

2. If you do, don’t call attention to it.

3. It is amazing how fast people can rally around a story that didn’t really take off until a day or two after it actually happened.  Kurt may disagree with this right now, but that is a pretty awesome thing about the internet.

The good news for Greenbaum, and pretty much the only good news since he is probably getting pizzas sent to his house 24/7, is that internet hatred (or love) is fleeting.  Sadly, though, images can kinda be forever….

ELhGP

Images via Reddit

The Post Dispatch’s “Social Media Guy” Tattles on Naughty Commenter, Craps on Privacy Policy

kurtKurt Greenbaum, Director of Social Media at the St. Louis Post Dispatch jumped on his blog the other day to gleefully tell the tale about how he tracked down one of the thousands of nasty commenters on STLToday.com, called the employer of the commentator (based on the IP/Hostname) and because of his tattle-telling, the dude got fired.

…and then the internet skull-f*cked him.

Here’s a few of the comments on his original blog post entitled “Post a Vulgar Comment at Work, Lose Your Job“:

You seem to revel in the fact that a guy who made a mildly-offensive, silly comment on an asinine blog post is no longer employed. That’s a dick move in and of itself.

For someone who has self-annointed himself the “STL Social Media Guy”, you’re pretty clueless — and perhaps dangerous to the Social Media movement (from a laughingstock perspective at the very least).

Oh and if you’re going to report me to my boss for an implied (again) “P” word, that’s fine.

Sounds like you should get rid of your commenting system if you’re going to react like that.

So strange that newspapers are going out of business, isn’t it? Alienating readers? Great business plan. Good luck in the new media landscape Kurt. And no, I’m not posting from a job, so you can’t get me fired, bigshot.

So basically you’re a humorless jerk, Kurt, and you’re proud of it.

This is our favorite one:

I would think that someone who works for Lee Publications would have more sympathy for those who lose their jobs.

So there are really two questions in play: 1. Was this a dick move?  and 2. Can/Should the operator of a website do this?

Was this a dick move?

Oh yeah.  Totally.

The fired commenter dropped a vulgar comment on a post entitled “What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever eaten?”  so though I think we can all agree the post was totally asking for it, STLToday is still a site that all ages go to and the site has all the right in the world to remove those types of comments, and we fully agree with that.  However, when  you go tracking down a commenter’s host name and then call the place up?!  Dude, I really still don’t know what the Director of Social Media does, but clearly they should also make him scrub the toilets because this guy doesn’t have enough to do!

Greenbaum, will and has on his follow up post, retorted with the fact that finding out where the post came from wasn’t hard…

The name of the school was readily visible on the e-mail alert about the comment.

Well you know what?  Tripping old ladies isn’t hard either, but its still a dick move.

Case closed.

Was this the right thing to do?

When you run any kind of site that has even a few “social” features on it, like comments, you are quickly inundated with data about your users, even the anonymous ones.  The basic rules are simple: Don’t do a damn thing with this data unless it is 100% anonymous statistics.  Sure all that data seems harmless, the IP from where they last logged on, what time it was, what they searched for, their password to your site.  But take that last example.  Do you have a different password for every site?  I bet you don’t.  I bet its the same one as  your email account…  As we’ve said before, you have full rights to block comments and edit them all you like on your server but crossing over to what was essentially calling someone’s mother, is over the line and can lead to nothing but a slippery slope.

For this very reason most sites have a “privacy policy” and guess what?  STLToday is no different, and Greenbaum is all for it. He even says in that same follow up post:

I did not and would not violate our privacy policy. I regret that this episode may have cast doubt on that. We take our privacy policy seriously.

Lets take a look-see at that privacy policy shall we?  Hmm…hmm…I like it when we read together… Oh here we go!  Right under the header “What We Do With the Information We Gather About You” (Emphasis mine)

We will not share individual user information with third parties unless the user has specifically approved the release of that information. In some cases, however, we may provide information to legal officials as described in “Compliance with Legal Process” below.

I think its clear that he did in fact violate his own site’s Privacy Policy, not when he looked up the hostname, but the minute he picked up the phone and volunteered the IP and creation time of the comment. The only loophole here is that last sentence and Greenbaum certainly didn’t mention talking with the FBI about this particular comment and frankly I doubt they would be interested.

What should he have done here?

Deleted, or edited the comment.

I agree with Greenbaum that “blocking” or “banning” the IP is not the solution here as that might block other innocent people from using the site, but that is hardly the only option.  STLToday isn’t the only site out there with people wanting to leave nasty comments.  Some sites don’t care of course, but others do and most of those sites have found ways to help the issue with out sinking to violating their user’s privacy.  I don’t want to take this piece into beginning web development, but just look at the commenting systems on sites like Digg, or even ToastedRav.com and you can see that the comments there stay very clean despite the amount of nasty crap that goes through them each day like all sites.

What Greenbaum needs to do now is not give some half-hearted applogy on his blog, he needs to own up to the fact that he violated every user’s trust with this move.  Other than that, there’s nothing left he can do.  You can’t get the guy his job back, and you can’t “fix” this.  The damage is done.  Sure this is something that mainly is festering on Twitter, but thats the very crowd you want on your side.  These are the thought leaders in this new age and in a way, you just up-skirted them.

If anyone has any leads on who the “mysterious vulgar commenter” is, please shoot us an email at tips@punchingkitty.com or leave a text or voicemail at 314-266-TIPS  We would really like to follow up with him…plus he sound like he might be funny.

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